Worst n Best

Today July 25..Many years back this day I lost my baby inside me..The worst thing that can happen to any women..For me too...It was very difficult for my body and soul to come out of it ..It took days and months and years..But now when i look back to it, It was an incident meant to be happened.To be happened just to show some good things to me..A well planned incident by God to give me some of the best things in my life..
After the incident happened I had to be under bed rest for some days..and as we were in US , there was no one with me and I was all alone at home simply lying down in my bed.So to divert my mind and to pass time I started hearing an audio CD about God..and I still believe that ,that is one of the best thing that happened to me..To understand a lot about God which changed my complete outlook.

 Another thing was the realization of selfless help.As I was in bed rest I was not able to cook.So our neighbour aunty gave me food for fifteen days.A total stranger ..not even my blood relation.I will never forget her and her family in my life time.Not only her, so many friends cooked food for me..It was a big realization for me that people do so many things for others..

Another thing is the cooking inspiration.As I got married  at very young age ,and suddenly got introduced to the world of cooking..I was not much interested in cooking..I was somehow managing..But when I was under bed rest, after returning from office my husband will enter into kitchen and will cook for me.And he used to cook so many things and that too with full happiness and not showing even a minute feeling of laziness.That was a total inspiration for me and for my cooking life after that..And I am always  proud to say that..

Another thing is the realization that nothing is in our hands..Never in our mind or words should we think that we can bring life to this world or we are in control.Everything is ultimately decided by God.

GIVING

SELFLESS GIVING UNTO OTHERS REPRESENTS ONES TRUE WEALTH--JON M HUNTSMAN

GIVING TO OTHERS IS THE GREATEST GIFT THAT YOU CAN GIVE TO YOURSELF--DARREN HARDY

I HAVE FOUND THAT AMONG ITS OTHER BENEFITS , GIVING LIBERATES THE SOUL OF THE GIVER---MAYA ANGELOU


Whats it that liberated your soul today and bought you that bliss?
Experience it..the liberation of soul..the complete bliss..by just giving ..be in any form..financial, materialistic, serving or helping, or just blessing with a hug.

Courage

Life moves on..But you have the courage to face it only when you know that nothing is in your hand.Everything is decided by him.So if he decides everything , we just have to do our duty.The result can be negative or positive.But whatever it is..it is not in your hands..Such a simple thing..But so complicated to digest.This simple philosophy can even remove our fear of death.
Death is always by his choice.It can come to you at any instance.But think about the fact that nothing is in our hands.We are brought to this world by Him and he only have the right to decide its end.So why should we fear it..Or rather be happy about it.welcome with full happiness and enjoy His touch and warmth.
Everytime courage comes from this total trust.total sacrifice.Nothing can be moved without his consent.so why should we worry.Enjoy a fearless life...

ROWDY!!!

ALL THEY NEED IS A LITTLE HELP, A LITTLE HOPE, AND  SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES IN THEM.

Yes, thats what they are asking for. PLAY IS THE WORK OF CHILDREN. So when they play, they play with full heart and there may be lot of imperfections. But that does't mean they are ROWDIES..

They are all perfect in their own way. Tagging kids when they are very small will not only ruin the tagged child but also the child who is hearing it when you are tagging them.

Today one parent came to me and told that she doesn't want her child to be in the class of  TWO ROWDIES and she wants her son to be in a different class. I was thinking of the poor fate of those three boys.
                  The fate of two boys who are being tagged from such small age, who doesn't even know the meaning of rowdies, who doesn't even know that many people are tagging them, who doesn't even know that the tag is going to  spread everywhere and many more people are going to tag them.                         
                  The other boy whose fate I am worried the most is her own son, who is learning from his own parents that everyone has to be tagged with bad names if they are doing something wrong, who is learning that you should start hating your friends if they are a little more playful with you, who is learning that we should start seeing bad in everything in our early childhood itself, who is learning that life is too complicated out there.

Is this the way we have to bloom our tiny buds instead of embedding love and care for everyone in this world???.